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oh my gawd i have not posted here in a long time. i havent looked at my zine in a long time. I’m not sure i feel any connection to the ‘zine world’ anymore. i havent spoken to anyone who i used to trade zines with/write letters to etc, and i havent been involved in any girlvirus stuff. i dunno how i feel about all this anymore. i do quite want to carry on with #3 of my zine- i feel i still have important things to say, and it’s been on the to do list of my new 2012 diary. but also, i dunno. my life is very different than it was before (better), and i have different priorities now. i still believe/think/feel the same things, but to put it down on paper and make it look nice and print it seems like far too much time and effort that i could spending with my boyfriend or cat.

Slutwalk

I wrote a piece about/for/in support of Slutwalk, just before the London Slutwalk took place. It was intended to go in Bitch theme #3 but um, the zine isnt out yet obvs.

Instead, i will post it here. Yes, the Slutwalk has come and gone, the news channels and papers have forgotten all about it etc. But there will be more Slutwalks. There are still Slutwalk’s taking place in other countries. And the issue behind it is still something that we need to be talk about. This piece could do with some editing, but i can’t be arsed. You get the point.

“Slutwalk is getting a lot of attention right now, some negative and some positive. The subject of Slutwalk has been featured on blog posts, tumblr, Facebook, Twitter, news websites and more, and really is the ‘hot’ feminist topic right now. Basically the story is:  In January of this year, a police officer in Toronto was giving a ‘personal safety’ talk to a group of Law students and said to them “women should avoid dressing like sluts in order not to be victimised”. Yep, if you don’t want to be raped, then don’t dress like a slut. This astonishing lack of sensitivity and hideous display of victim blaming sparked outrage in the feminists of Toronto, who quickly organised Slutwalk, Toronto. Many sister Slutwalk’s have been organised in places such as America, New Zealand, Amsterdam, Australia, and London (which hasn’t happened yet- June 11th!).

If you are a feminist, or indeed a decent human being, it would perhaps be safe to assume you would agree with the basic idea behind Slutwalk- putting a stop to victim blaming and rape culture. So, why the negative attention then? Well, people have had a number of different issues with Slutwalk- but the main issue that keeps cropping up time and time again is the use and celebration of the word slut. Yes, slut is a negative word. Because it is used in a negative way. It is used as an insult, generally directed towards women who wear make-up, dress ‘promiscuously’ or sleep with a large number of people (what exactly constitutes as a large number has yet to be defined). The people who throw the word “slut” around as an insult have no right (nor does anyone) to determine what a slut is or isn’t. Also, the word slut generally isn’t used against men- why? Because men generally can wear what they like and behave the way they want. They are not judged for their sexual behaviour; in fact their sexual behaviour is more often than not celebrated. These are reasons why we should be reclaiming the word slut, and not allowing people to cut us down with words that judge our behaviour and appearance, just because we are women.  If you reclaim the word slut, no one can hurt you with it, right? When you reclaim the word you remove all power it has, and create your own meaning. Whether, for you, being a slut means being yourself, being happy, wearing what you want- it doesn’t matter.

But I don’t think that’s the main issue here. Whether you agree with the name or not, the facts are simple: Society teaches “don’t get raped” instead of “don’t rape”. That policeman’s words echo this sentiment exactly. Women are told to cover up, stay away from certain areas, only spend time with men who they know well, not get drunk etc. But actually, women get raped whilst they are wearing short skirts and heels, as well as trousers and a jumper. Women get raped in the night and in the day. Women get raped in the streets and in their own homes. Women get raped whether they are sober or drunk. Women get raped by people they know well, and by strangers. Women get raped. And it is not their fault. Rapists’ rape and they are the only ones to be held accountable for their behaviour. Slutwalk is a chance to march, shout and protest with other people who believe the same, and I urge you to get involved (if you can) in the London Slutwalk on June 11th.


chippendale:

Finally Finished.
“They actually believe that a woman who’s been raped should now be forced to bear a childIn their opinion her violation and unwanted pregnancy should be reconciledThere’s only one opinion that matters when it’s time to make that choiceand it doesn’t belong to a fictitious god”Lyrics by Behind Enemy Lines.Prints of original painting by Tom Chippendale.40 x 28.3cm (bit smaller than A3) Print hand numbered of 15For each painting sold I will be donating £5 to www.rapecrisis.org.uk via their Paypal donation system.
http://tomchippendale.bigcartel.com
I’ve also put the price down on most of the other prints so clear out the last few before I get new stock. So grab a bargain.

Thanks to everyone for all the likes and reblogs and another thanks to those who hated the painting it is always entertaining to read your comments.Still a few in the store for £20 but if that’s not in your price range then pick up one of my other prints for the clearance price of £5 before I restock and the prices go back up.
Again thank you to all of you beautiful and kindhearted people of tumblr for helping me support Rapecrisis.


LOVE IT.

chippendale:

Finally Finished.

“They actually believe that a woman who’s been raped should now be forced to bear a child
In their opinion her violation and unwanted pregnancy should be reconciled
There’s only one opinion that matters when it’s time to make that choice
and it doesn’t belong to a fictitious god”

Lyrics by Behind Enemy Lines.
Prints of original painting by Tom Chippendale.
40 x 28.3cm (bit smaller than A3) Print hand numbered of 15

For each painting sold I will be donating £5 to www.rapecrisis.org.uk via their Paypal donation system.

http://tomchippendale.bigcartel.com

I’ve also put the price down on most of the other prints so clear out the last few before I get new stock. So grab a bargain.

Thanks to everyone for all the likes and reblogs and another thanks to those who hated the painting it is always entertaining to read your comments.

Still a few in the store for £20 but if that’s not in your price range then pick up one of my other prints for the clearance price of £5 before I restock and the prices go back up.

Again thank you to all of you beautiful and kindhearted people of tumblr for helping me support Rapecrisis.

LOVE IT.

(via chippendale)

done a bit of writing for Bitch Theme #3 today.. I’ll get there in the end.

In other news, i’ve been thinking about different feminist writing projects to work on. I’m not really sure why seeing as it’s taking me so long to put out the next issue of Bitch theme.. Anyway, i have been thinking that something more current news/affairs related would be good. Different goings on in the world that affect feminists and women.

I have been finding “personal” writing more and more difficult recently. I dont know why, maybe it’s coz i’m happy and things are going right, and most of my personal writing stems from anger, frustration etc. I am still writing, it just doesnt seem to come as easily as it did before (but today i started writing something about SlutWalk for Bitch Theme #3, and the words just flowed). Hence my ideas about something that is feminist related, just not as personal.

I know there are some feminist magazines that do this kind of thing, but this would be more of a zine. More accessible, more diy. Or maybe a blog/website by zinesters? I dont know. But i do know that if you have any ideas, or would like to collaborate on such a project, then you should email me at: charlotteleeuk@yahoo.com

Spillthezines is a new blog that promotes and spreads news about UK zines and UK zine goings on. It is run by zinesters Cath (Here.In my head) and Hannah (Not Lonley). It has only recently started, so if you have some news you could share then go on the blog, email one of the ladies and help them get started! <3

“The baby”- a piece by Jennifer Gerard

Would you like to hold the baby?

If someone would like to hold the baby
they would say,
Can I hold the baby?

I do not want to hold the baby.
I am afraid that I will drop the baby
or bump their soft, clay-like head into blunt objects,
leaving a permanant indentation of my carelessness in their skull.

Or worst of all, the baby will find my eyes
and see the soul I so carefully and methodically conceal and begin wailing in despair,
at which point Mom will lift the baby from my arms,
weightless, hot, moist baby,
and reassure me it is nothing personal.

I could just say no,
thank you,
I do not want to hold the baby,

but then Mom would look at me as though I am a cretin.
Mom would think,
I do not like her baby,
Which,
of course,
is not true.
It is just a baby after all.

But please,
Please I do not want to hold your baby.

Jennifer Gerard is a freelance writer and massage
therapist living in Asheville, NC.

might as well post some photo’s..

whilst i am writing bitch theme 3, i would like submissions for bitch theme 4 plz!

I have decided to subtitle the next comp issue of Bitch theme (Bitch theme #4), the girl hate/girl love edition. This is because I have been thinking a lot recently about girl hate/love and the way both affect my life, and the lives of other girls I know. I have written about it in previous issues of my zine, and I have talked about it in letters with zinester ladies all over the world. Girl hate and girl love are important topics that need to be talked about and discussed- how can we expect the world to stop putting us down, oppressing us, ridiculing us and judging us, when we do it to each other?

The problem with girl hate is that it is ingrained in us from an early age. When girls bitch at each other and hate on each other for no reason, it is not their fault, it is the way that they have been taught to behave- the way society has taught them to get ahead. I hope that this zine will explore these issues and go some way to helping us to start loving, not hating. I don’t want this zine to be full of preachy stories about girls who have managed to eliminate all the jealousy and the bitchiness, however. I want this zine to talk about our failures as well as successes, and show that none of us are perfect and we all make mistakes, but that the best we can do is try. Changing your entire mindset, and reversing a pattern that has been socialised into you from an early age is not easy, and I want this zine to acknowledge that.

Topics for submissions could include: your thoughts on girl hate/girl love and the way girls treat each other, why girl hate exists, what kind of girl hate you have been subjected to and why- and what did you do about it?, how girl hate makes you feel, how girl love makes you feel, how you try to eliminate girl hate from your life, how you try and include more girl love in your life, how you try and overcome jealousy, how you try and support other girls, and anything else you can think of that relates to this topic.

For this zine, I mainly want submissions of writing, but I will also accept artwork and anything else you may want to submit. I regret that I cannot accept finished pages. If you want to submit writing, please email it to: charlotteleeuk@yahoo.com with “Bitch theme #4” written in the subject line so I know what it is. If you want to submit artwork, then email me and we can discuss it.

The deadline for this was March 2011, but i havent got my act in gear.. for now, there is no deadline!

Thaaaaankyou ladies! <3”

bitch theme #3 is taking a much longer time than i thought it would. i keep looking over it and not feeling happy with it at all. a lot is going on right now, and i have a lot to write about, but the words aren’t coming out right, and everything looks trite and embarrasing. i dont feel any real motivation to work on it, im not sure how im gonna get it printed if i ever do finish it, i dont have anyone to take the pictures for the front/back cover, and due to severe lack of computer-know how, i cant seem to install word on my laptop which stops me writing even if i wanted to. also i have totally lost track of all the people who emailed about it and i promised could buy a copy when it was done, and i feel a bit out of touch with the zine world in general.

usally when i feel this unmotivated i drink coffee, coz coffee = productivity and rushing around getting shit done. but then i started feeling flustered and out of breath, so coffee is a NO NO for the rest of today.

oh deep sigh.

yeah.

I have stolen this from an that Clem wrote to a question that got asked to the grrlvirus tumblr, but i had to copy and paste as it explains exactly why the girlvirus movement is the raddest thing ever, and the most positive thing i have ever been involved in.

” grrrlVIRUS is not equatable to riot grrrl. it is not a ‘new version’ of riot grrrl. rather, it’s a movement made up of diverse ideologies and practices, and it is this diversity, messiness and contradiction that it thrives on. grrrlVIRUS draws on, recognizes and celebrates many movements including riot grrrl, but also including women in rock, hiphop and punk (as well as many other musical genres), womanism and black feminism, first, second and third wave feminism, dyke and lesbian feminism, girl zine cultures and many other feminist/anti-sexist/grrrl positive movements and ideas that have had various names and existed in various ways. grrrlVIRUS is different for each of us, we take what we like and leave what we don’t while still finding ways to work together. for many of us, but not all, courtney love is a major inspiration. the term grrrlVIRUS actually comes from an essay written by courtney love called ‘gun club for girls’. many feminist movements have been divided by difference and/or by a development of rules about who ‘really’ is a feminist. grrrlVIRUS seeks to recognize difference and work with it, and allows each grrrl to think for herself and contract the VIRUS on her own terms. at the same times, grrrlVIRUS recognizes that not all women/girls/grrrls will identify with it and that many will want to do something else, and we think that’s totally cool too”

In other news, Bitch theme #3 is coming along swimmingly, and should be out in a month or two. I am beyond excited for the front cover, but need to take the photos for it still. Also i have had lots of lovely submissions for Bitch theme #4, but need more! Look below for the full call for submissions, and any questions AT ALL, just email me: charlotteleeuk@yahoo.com

girlsgetbusyzine asked: Hey, I wondered if you'd like to trade zines?

Mine's a feminist collective featuring work from various girls!
http://girlsgetbusyzine.tumblr.com/photo/1280/2543391556/1/tumblr_leaygin3b91qfenzh

heyy, i would love to but i dont have any issues floating around at the moment to trade with! Bitch theme #3 should be done in a few weeks (maybe a month) so when thats all printed i’ll get at you and we can sort something out! thanks for your interest!

grrrlvirus:

GRRRLVIRUS 2011

Because sexism is real and we have to struggle against it every day and we are fucking tired of hearing that there’s no need for feminism anymore.

Because sexual harassment is a serious fucking problem, and we are fucking sick to death of being called ‘baby’ ‘sweetheart’…

malefeminist:

i-am-the-lighthouse:

whiskeyhands:

Answering messages instead of being in the ktchen?
SHAME

I’m a guy so being in the kitchen would challenge gender roles quite effectively, contrary to your intention with this joke.
SHAME

Instant reblog. 

malefeminist:

i-am-the-lighthouse:

whiskeyhands:

Answering messages instead of being in the ktchen?

SHAME

I’m a guy so being in the kitchen would challenge gender roles quite effectively, contrary to your intention with this joke.

SHAME

Instant reblog. 

(via )

Bitch theme #4. Already had a few submissions, but need more! So here is the call for submissions again- get writing ladies <3

I have decided to subtitle the next comp issue of Bitch theme (Bitch theme #4), the girl hate/girl love edition. This is because I have been thinking a lot recently about girl hate/love and the way both affect my life, and the lives of other girls I know. I have written about it in previous issues of my zine, and I have talked about it in letters with zinester ladies all over the world. Girl hate and girl love are important topics that need to be talked about and discussed- how can we expect the world to stop putting us down, oppressing us, ridiculing us and judging us, when we do it to each other?

The problem with girl hate is that it is ingrained in us from an early age. When girls bitch at each other and hate on each other for no reason, it is not their fault, it is the way that they have been taught to behave- the way society has taught them to get ahead. I hope that this zine will explore these issues and go some way to helping us to start loving, not hating. I don’t want this zine to be full of preachy stories about girls who have managed to eliminate all the jealousy and the bitchiness, however. I want this zine to talk about our failures as well as successes, and show that none of us are perfect and we all make mistakes, but that the best we can do is try. Changing your entire mindset, and reversing a pattern that has been socialised into you from an early age is not easy, and I want this zine to acknowledge that.

Topics for submissions could include: your thoughts on girl hate/girl love and the way girls treat each other, why girl hate exists, what kind of girl hate you have been subjected to and why- and what did you do about it?, how girl hate makes you feel, how girl love makes you feel, how you try to eliminate girl hate from your life, how you try and include more girl love in your life, how you try and overcome jealousy, how you try and support other girls, and anything else you can think of that relates to this topic.

For this zine, I mainly want submissions of writing, but I will also accept artwork and anything else you may want to submit. I regret that I cannot accept finished pages. If you want to submit writing, please email it to: charlotteleeuk@yahoo.com with “Bitch theme #4” written in the subject line so I know what it is. If you want to submit artwork, then email me and we can discuss it.

The deadline for this is March 2011.

Thaaaaankyou ladies! <3”